Four Reasons Why Men Should Meet Women Online (And One Reason Why They Shouldn't)
Men, if you don't already have women chasing after you every day, then you should be dating women online. Here are the
Four most compelling reasons why men should be seeking out
and meeting women online, and one reason why they absolutely
shouldn't.
1) Online dating is the most amazing gift to men invented
since woman herself. (Well, most women.)
Think about it for a moment. For one small flat fee (and
sometimes for no fee at all) you can scope out women, learn
what they like, what they don't like, check out their
picture and actually begin swapping emails, IMs and talking
with them.
Here's what you don't have: To get dressed up; to gas up
your car; to spend hours of your prime time; to buy drinks
for people you don't' know; to fail in public.
On balance, it's a pretty convenient and effective method of
meeting women.
2) There are MILLIONS of women ACTIVELY LOOKING for you
online. They are not coy "bar chicks" or girls with
boyfriends. They are what we call in marketing, HOT LEADS.
Smoking hot! Because they are coming out to meet you half
way. You just have to learn how to become the bait they are
seeking.
Now, there are two basic reasons women are there on line.
Some are there to look for a guy to marry. Some are looking
for a guy to just hook up with.
But that pretty much explains guys, too. So no matter what
reason you're looking for women, there are women looking for
you, too.
3) Women online range from not-so-hot to super-hot. I have
personally hooked up with some of the most beautiful women
of my life from online. And any cursory tour through one of
the better sites will show you - this is not a side option
for single guys - it's a MUST DO!
So the attractiveness of women online pretty much mirrors
the attractiveness of women anywhere, right? Well, that's to
be expected. But when you are at a bar or club trying to
meet women, you only have a few dozen to choose from at
most. And everyone is going to be hounding the hot ones.
Online, you've got those MILLIONS to choose from. What's
even better is that you can search for them by location,
income, religion. . . all this stuff you can get out of the
way before you even say Hi.
4) Online dating is THE place to practice your game.
Whether you still remember awkward Junior High School dances
like it was yesterday, or you effortlessly meet and hookup
with women all the time, Online is the place to practice
without personal rejection.
There are lots of great techniques for meeting and seducing
women. Whatever "way" you are, or whatever "technique" you
choose, you'll have more time to practice it online.
Whatever you do, learn from your mistakes as well as your
successes. Not everything is going to work every time, and
you shouldn't expect it to.
One other great advantage to online dating is that you don't
have to fear rejection. These women you approach don't know
you. Your friends aren't there to watch you crash and burn.
So, you can take risks that you wouldn't normally take if
you were talking to a woman in person.
And that means you'll succeed more than in person, too.
Maybe.
But there is one reason NOT to go online to meet women:
Being closed minded. You are going to be exposed to lots
more women online than you've ever seen before. If you are
closed minded when you write or talk with them, you're sure
to fail. If you are not willing to get out of your rut and
try something different, to learn something new, then you
are sure to fail. If you don't learn how to listen and read
women's profiles properly, to truly understand what they
mean in their profiles or emails to you, you are sure to
fail.
So, don't be closed minded. Online dating is the single best
method for meeting women today if you approach it properly.
Done wrong, it can lead to the same results you've always
had, and that may not be what you want.